Another thing to learn: no need to explain.

Hello there, it's been a while so here let me share another thought that i need to learn. Sometimes you are gonna find people who like to ask anything, actually they don't ask directly, they just give a statement that make the other people need to respond it with explanation and unfortunately i'm the type who always answer all the statement that they asked, and after i answer it, i feel so not good for my own self. This people who like to unintentionally ask about anything seems like an innocent people who actually trying to dig any information that they doesn't need to know.

Well, we can't change other people, so i am learning and practicing this 'no need explanation' lesson this time. As you know, i am the type who always try to give solution for everyone who seems like asking me although it's  just a statement i am automatically think to share everything that i know. But this time i need to learn this, i do not need to explain anything to people, sometimes just a gesture, smile or just a hmm will end the not good feeling that i will feel if i did explain.

Sometimes people doesn't need a solutions, maybe they give statement just to make a long conversation, and i do not need to make everything right. And i am learning that everything that i already experienced and i know which one is good which one is not good, i do not need to share it to people who don't even asked me directly. Let them experience it by themselves.

So yes i hope i can master this one lesson, i have to change my mind to make everything right and not everything need solutions unless those who ask me directly. It's not about being arrogant but this is about my own peace of mind.